Talking about being a successful woman and how you get to the place where you are right now, we must include what you have been through. The journey that you had to take with numerous ups and downs and things and people who are trying to knock you down and hold you back. Days and nights spent working hard to achieve your dreams, with sweat and tears, and in the end, get to where you are imagining you would be.
We need to mention the countless failures and times where you were close to achieving the goal but falling short. But never worrying that something is unreachable or impossible, and continuing to work even harder than the time before.
Throughout the journey, there will always be that voice in the back of your head that will tell you that the thing you are doing is not for you. Or no matter how hard you try, you will never be successful, you will never be capable enough.
There will always be people watching your every move, the people that want to see you get to where you are going. The people who are hoping that along the way you fall and fall short of the thing you are trying to accomplish and criticizing your every move and everything you do.
When you see a successful woman, you have to have in mind that before she achieved everything that makes her successful, she was a woman that didn’t believe in herself. A woman that was too afraid to risk in life so that she can be a better person. A woman that every single comment about her actions was influencing her mood and mindset. A woman that after something went wrong, was devastated and would quit after the first mistake.
Also, we have to know that behind this woman is a desire to achieve her goals. She has a passion for what she is doing and the determination that everything will go as planned. As we said, there will always be small doubts, but she never allows those to get the best of her.
There is something more powerful behind every successful woman. And, no, it's not her man! Behind every successful woman stands a tribe of other women who go along her side every step of her way! Women encourage and push her so she can be the best possible self. Women that will never abandon her and leave her when she falls off or falls down but be there to pick her up and dust her off and make sure she continues on her journey. Whether they are family, friends, colleagues, or partners, they choose to be alongside her and work together and not try to compete for the same goal. Women that are honest and tell everything to her face rather than talking behind her back. Women that don’t get jealous and say why her and not me. They will never try to bring her down, and nothing in their minds would make them do something that will further down the line end up being her downfall.
Women that tell her the truth and will always correct her when she is wrong or is on the path of making a mistake.
Women that empower her and make her feel that everything is possible, and with that, both sides continue stronger into the future. Women that will always say and do things that are for her own good, things that will help her along the way.
There is always a higher power that sees and believes in the hopes and dreams that will cheer her on and do good and amazing things in the future. A higher power that knows what she is capable of and that from the beginning knew that if she focuses and works hard, she will become the person she desires. The higher power has believed in her from the start, and it is proud when he sees that nothing can stop her from achieving what she sets her mind on.
So when looking back, be proud of the past experiences that make you who you are. See and remind yourself of the mistakes you have made and smile because they didn’t stop you from continuing what you dreamt of doing. Remind yourself that controlling that little voice in the back of your head that said that you will never make it was a massive step towards your successes. Remind yourself that when people were always watching your every move and wanted and hoped that you would fail, that was just the spark and motivation to prove them wrong. Look back at the woman you were and wonder why you were scared of taking risks and opportunities. And later see yourself today and be happy about the woman you have become. Look back and be proud of the burning desire you had to succeed and never be intimidated by the task in front of you. Be thankful to the women that were there every step of the way, encouraging, helping, and pushing you to be better every day.
The path to success isn’t easy and be proud of how hard you worked and the time you put in so you could achieve what you wanted.