Become the Best Version of Yourself with Kindness!
Before you put yourself out there and try to find someone that you can be in a relationship with, you first need to work on yourself. Be confident in yourself, and try not to pressure yourself into things that you don't want or see yourself in. When you are ready to take that step and start sharing your life with someone else, it is vital to make sure that you are the best possible version of yourself. Here are some tips and pointer on to attract and have healthier relationships:
1. Maintain a healthy self-image
Like we said in the beginning, work on yourself first. Take a long look at yourself and be honest with what you see, and try to project the best image of yourself onto the world to see. Acknowledge your flaws and work on them and in no time you will feel better in your and in the eyes of others.
2. Be good to yourself
Be kind to yourself, look after yourself, because no one can do it better than you. Try to live a healthier life, eat well, and exercise as much as possible. Be happy with what you have achieved and have a more positive look on life. If you don't feel satisfied with yourself in the first place, there is a massive chance that you won't be satisfied with someone next to you.
3. Let go of your baggage
This may be one of the biggest mistakes that people do, and that is life in the past. One of the biggest things you'll need to do before stepping in new relationships, you'll need to forget what's happened in the past. Most of us have been in situations where a past partner has hurt us, and that doesn't mean that the future ones will do the same. Take time and recover from what has happened and leave it all in the past.
4. Think about what makes a good relationship
Take and learn from past experiences, pick out the things that were making the relationship great. It doesn't even have to be the previous relationships that you can learn from. You can pick up things that your friends are doing in their relationships, things that are making the relationship last.
5. Forget about appearance
Judging people by their appearance isn't always right. The most beautiful people, aren't always the right ones for you, and the girl or boy that you didn't really like or didn't quite see yourself with, may have been the person that could have changed your life for the better.
6. Date the nice ones
This is the most obvious one of all the things we said so far. If you have someone that treats you right and you always feel loved and happy when they are around, stick close to that person. And if you are in a relationship that you don't feel comfortable. And the person you are with is not respecting you or is treating you poorly, the best thing you can do is just walk out of that relationship.
7. Listen to your heart
It may seem like a thing that is only said in movies, but it actually the right thing to do. You are the one that makes decisions about who you are with, and no one else can tell you what you are looking for or at the end of the day who you are going to be with.
8. Have fun!
This one goes together with number 2, and we can't stress this enough, have a good time. Go out, experience new things, spend time with your friends, and enjoy what you have in life.
9. Try not to overthink it
This is a thing that many people do, and it can get in the way of your relationship. If you continue to overthink, whether it is before you are with someone or while you are with someone, overthinking can be dangerous. Stop looking so far in the future and focus and enjoy the present.