I Paid for Stepdaughter’s Wedding but She Chose Bio Dad to Give Her Away, So I Made Declaration during Toast

In an unexpected wedding decision, a girl’s stepfather generously paid for her special day, only to be left hurt and angry when she chose her biological father to walk her down the aisle. But as tensions mounted and emotions ran high, the stepdad seized the moment with a surprising toast.

On June 2, 2013, an anonymous man turned to Reddit’s “Off My Chest” forum to share a story that had weighed heavily on his mind as his stepdaughter’s wedding day approached. He expressed his feelings with a sense of frustration and disappointment.

The original poster began by mentioning that his stepdaughter was scheduled to get married on August 3, highlighting how the wedding planning had consumed much of her and her mother’s life over the past six months. He clarified their relationship by saying, “I say her mother because we aren’t married, though we’ve lived together for 10 years.”

The man then provided details about the substantial financial support he had given his step-daughter, including covering the cost of her college education, which had amounted to $40,000, even though she attended a state school. Additionally, he mentioned purchasing a car to ease her commute to and from school after her high school graduation.

Once he regained his composure, he rose from his chair and expressed his desire to propose a toast, acknowledging his decade-long presence within the family.

What seemed to trouble him the most was how his stepdaughter treated him compared to her biological father. OP explained that, at times, her bio dad would reappear in her life, and she showed deep affection toward him.

Despite his lack of financial contribution or child support, the stepdad shared that his stepdaughter still loved her birth father and wanted him in her life. He mentioned that her biological father had a history of making promises to her and then leaving, which invariably broke her heart.